"We are not invincible,but feel we must be."

Published on Aug 11, 2020

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"We are not invincible,but feel we must be."

"What makes me the most upset is I have everything I dreamed of...love, family , farm, & all I feel is overwhelmed, out of control, & sad."

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45% high stress
58% anxiety
35% depression

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38 % emotional exhaustion
42% cynicism

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Stigma
"cowboy up "
"pull yourself up "

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Unique stress

  • Weather risk, revenue
  • Family workplace mesh
  • Debt load, income drop
  • Social isolation
  • Social media anti-ag
  • Increasing regulations, red-tap
  • Labour shortages, too much work
  • Lifetime commitment to farm
  • Conflict communication poo
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Engage

  • Listen more, talk less
  • Ask curious questions
  • Make eye contact
  • "What do you need right now?
  • "You are not alone.
  • "You don't need to be a superhero.
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Role Investment

  • self-care
  • marriage
  • family connection
  • friends
  • community
  • support on farm work

short term crisis

  • Walk alongside...literally
  • Provide phone numbers
  • Check in regularly
  • Address substance abus
  • Prioriize self-care
  • Recognize role expectation
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"In the Know"

Dr. Andria Jones-Bitton, U of Guelph
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Farmers want

  • to have hard work appreciated
  • to be respected & heard
  • more fun and time off
  • profitable business, tools to manage energy & overwhelm
  • less paperwork
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Avoid Burnout

  • block time off for fun,rest
  • morning routine
  • manage energy
  • power to choose & let go
  • take action on what is not workin

"What can I take out of my day to make room for what is most important ?"

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