Time scale
Blame continuum
Communication continuum
Extreme emotions
1. people's views can change from initial diagnosis
2. some people think it is responsible to have children as long as they are monitored, while others think having a child at all is the hight of irresponsibility
3. some people have candid conversations with their children, others wait until adolescence/young adulthood, others don't discuss it at all (some misinformation in some cases)
4. this situation is very emotional, and people can have contradictory feelings/thoughts, while others resort to avoidance/ ambivalence