Three: Think lose-win(ish). You will always lose. Always. You cannot win and the sooner you unburden yourself of the ceaseless pressure of striving to, then you can start winning-ish. As Dylan Wiliams said, "This job you are doing is so hard that one lifetime isn't enough to master it." What does he mean? Your job satisfaction derives from embracing continuous improvement, so, let imperfection be your catalyst for future success.
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