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Consequences of straying from societal norms:
Some people even choose to “follow a norm because they believe that others would shun them if they didn’t” (Bicchieri 10). As mentioned before, if there is even a slight doubt that someone will be ridiculed or excluded for deviating, the person will more than likely choose to follow the norm. Individuals are often afraid of the rumors or the judging looks that come from this divergence, so they choose the safer route of being a follower. However, this can lead to damaging health issues within the individual, such as depression, anxiety, and constant stress, simply because they are trying to please society. Their true self yearns to be free as they try to prevent the judgment that they could potentially receive from others. Worst of all, society makes these norms because a group of people comes up with one standard, and everyone else is too afraid to admit their true opinion on the matter. Franny is starting to realize that she no longer wants to conform in order to be accepted: “I’m so horribly conditioned to accept everybody’s values (…). I’m sick of not having the courage to be an absolute nobody” (Salinger 30). Franny is tired of everyone giving her opinions on how she should behave, dress, and talk. She wants to be her own person. She wants to be able to do whatever she wants without someone watching her every move. Because Franny solely wants to stray from these norms, but she feels as if she cannot, she falls into a depressive state of mind, which damages her health, as well as her relationships with others.