The forces exerted by two objects on each other are often called an action- reaction force pair.
Either force can be considered the action force or the reaction force.
You might think that because action-reaction forces are equal and opposite that they cancel.
Forces can cancel only if they act on the same object.
For example, imagine you’re driving a bumper car and are about to bump a friend in another car, when the two cars collide, your car pushes on the other car.