You will have to start by defining yourself in terms of what you will bring about in this world to share. The actions you take in the world around you will have ripple effects that could very well at last you. What’s on your mind, your feelings, and opinions however, seldom have a positive impact on anyone until put in to action. You will have to set the example for what you want to happen instead of thinking it so. .
Be authentic and maintain your Integrity of self. Your story is more than just being liked or looking good; that’s just a projection of insecurities masked. Be you, not someone else or someone else’s idea. Integrity and being authentic is a two-way street. Everyone knows when someone is and is not authentic or is misleading in the story they are living. A person of integrity and authenticity is a sight to behold that others are drawn too.
The words you use, create the world as you see it, so use the only the words that mean what you are and you want to be about. The world occurs to you in your mind first and you have complete control over what happens there. You are always telling yourself a story and telling others, tell good ones.
Read and write often. And when I say, write, find a pen, pencil and paper you want to use and write. Start with words, then ideas, and then collection of thoughts. Sometimes this will be short, sometimes long. Just do it and do it often. Some of the best ideas for new projects or business grew from this exercise by people much more successful that I.
Judging others just robs you and others of being who we are, being authentic. Everyone is unique and also unique in how they see and approach the world. Appreciate this uniqueness that we all bring to the world and this game of life.
If you are reading this or have read this far, you have a fantastic opportunity to make a difference in your life and others. Have fun and play hard. Understand, most of our limits are self-imposed or borrowed from others who said life was this way. There are no limits, there is abundance, there are discoveries not yet discovered, stories not told, records that are meant to be challenged, inventions not created yet, and just much more to do than we even known we don’t know. So, find your passions, define them on your terms and go for it.