Our meanings for life are many and varied, but they spring from the context of our society and culture. Roy Baumeister offers an interpretation from a psychological and philosophical point of view.
Most of us consider the "meaning of life" to be personal, but meaning itself, says psychologist Roy Baumeister, is acquired socially–from others and from society.
Cultures offer us sets of meanings: clusters of associations, symbols, explanations, histories, and events. Out of these we begin to perceive the world.
These sets of ideas, says Baumeister, can be called ideologies and they tell us about our history, our symbols, and how we should behave toward one another.
As we become more aware of these cultural sets and their influence in our lives we can decide if those are really the values that we truly believe in. We DO have some choices!
Culture and society are systems that have a purpose--to perpetuate themselves and to provide a means of harmony, efficiency, and a measure of flexibility.
From the options in our culture and society we create a way of being for ourselves. It doesn't just erupt from some hidden spring within each of us. We're not working in a vacuum.
A combination of complementary opposites, perhaps, like Yin and Yang? We are both products of our culture and beings in discovery of ourselves. We discover--and we choose the trails we will pursue.
This interconnection of meanings was expressed by existentialist philosopher and playwright Gabriel Marcel when he wrote, "I hope in thee for us." We are not alone; we are ourselves with others.