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Facebook Teaches Relationship Lessons

Published on Nov 18, 2015

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PRESENTATION OUTLINE

RELATIONSHIP LESSONS

THE SCHOOL OF FACEBOOK
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TODAY

RELATIONSHIPS HAVE BECOME MORE DELICATE DUE TO NEWFOUND DATING NORMS
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HOWEVER...

MANY SAY FACEBOOK HAS RUINED RELATIONSHIPS
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WITH TECHNOLOGY BECOMING OUR NEW WAY OF LIFE

DATING WOULD HAVE TURNED THE TECH-CORNER ANYWAY
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THEN WITH ANOTHER SOCIAL NETWORK

IF NOT WITH FACEBOOK,

IN ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE

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"RELATIONSHIP OBSTACLES" CREATED BY FACEBOOK

CAN BE LOOKED AT AS VALUABLE LOVE LESSONS FOR TODAY'S STYLE OF DATING
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LESSON 1

IMPORTANCE OF COMMITMENT AND COMMUNICATION

FB INTRODUCES "FBO"

"A NEW TIER IN THE RELATIONAL HIERARCHY"

"THE THOUGHT OF THAT TINY SPLINTERING RED HEART SPREADING ACROSS

HUNDREDS OF NEWS FEEDS ... CAN SOMETIMES PROLONG THE INEVITABLE"
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BUT...

BECOMING "FBO" DEFINITELY HAS ITS ROADBLOCKS
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WITH THE OPTION OF GOING PUBLIC, COUPLES ALSO HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY

TO TALK ABOUT THINGS THEY NORMALLY WOULDN'T
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"ARE WE BOTH READY FOR AND COMFORTABLE WITH PUBLIC ATTENTION?"

ARE WE BOTH ON THE SAME LEVEL OF COMMITMENT?
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THIS NEW MILESTONE SENDS REMINDERS TO EVALUATE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

AND TO ACTUALLY... T A L K TO EACH OTHER
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LESSON 2

WHERE TO STOP AND BEGIN IN TERMS OF PRIVACY

WITH FB, IT'S A LOT EASIER TO GAIN VALUABLE INFORMATION ON YOUR SPOUSE

HOWEVER, TOO MUCH INFORMATION OFTEN HAS CONSEQUENCES FOR BOTH PARTIES
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ON THE ONE HAND,

THERE'S THE NEWFOUND OPTION OF "STALKING"
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FB STALKING IS USUALLY THE OUTCOME OF "NOT KNOWING"

ALLISON MCCANN SAYS "WE OFTEN FB STALK TO REDUCE UNCERTAINTY IN RELATIONSHIPS"

& THERE'S NOTHING LEFT TO TALK TO ABOUT?

BUT WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU GO OVERBOARD
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ELEMENTS OF MYSTERY & INTRIGUE

THOSE FIRST DATES THRIVE IN, END UP VANISHING
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80% OF WOMEN & 58% OF MEN SAY SOCIAL MEDIA HELPS ACCELERATE

A ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP MUCH FASTER THAN IF FB WERE TURNED OFF
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SO LIMIT YOURSELF

OR IT'LL BE "GOODBYE BUTTERFLIES & EXCITEMENT, I ALREADY KNOW EVERYTHING ABOUT YOU"

ON THE OTHER HAND,

THERE'S PUTTING TOO MUCH INFORMATION OUT THERE
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FB HAS MANY EMPTY BLANKS

BUT SHOULD YOU FILL THEM ALL IN?
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PHOTOS AND WALL POSTS CAN EASILY BE MISINTERPRETED

AND SET YOUR PARTNER UP FOR "FB JEALOUSY"
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"FACEBOOK CAN BE A PLACE WHERE INDIVIDUALS INTERPRET AMBIGUOUS

INFORMATION IN A NON-AMBIGUOUS WAY, PRODUCING NEGATIVE EMOTIONS"

ALL OVER THE WEB

THIS HOWEVER, IS A DATING TREND THAT'S BEGINNING TO OCCUR
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OUR FB EXPERIENCE TEACHES US THE SIGNIFICANCE OF PRIVACY & HOW WE CAN

EFFECTIVELY HANDLE OUR INFORMATION TO AVOID MISINTERPRETATIONS ON OTHER SOCIAL NETWORKS

RELATIONSHIPS OPERATE DIFFERENTLY NOWADAYS

SO NATURALLY, THERE ARE DIFFERENT TECHNIQUES TO MAKE THEM SUCCEED
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"FACEBOOK DOESN'T CAUSE DIVORCE, PEOPLE DO."

BUT NOW, WE CAN LEARN.
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