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Love Needs

Published on Nov 18, 2015

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GReat Lovers

Know their Spouse well
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Authentic Love

Requires us to truly KNOW the other
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More than Just Knowing ABOUT them

We need to know their Love Needs and Love Busters
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Love Needs

Are gestures that communicate love and connection
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Love needs include...
appreciation, affection, intimate conversation, sexual intimacy, domestic order, financial security, service, harmony, spontaneity, recreational companionship, couple fun, or shared prayer.

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Love Busters

are those gestures that kill love and connection
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Love Busters include... keeping secrets, disrespectful comments, angry demands, independent decisions, broken promises, criticism, teasing, contempt, or a failure to apologise.

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Successful Lovers

Meet their Beloved's Love Needs and Avoid their Busters
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You need a Plan!

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Start with a Love Buster

Choose one to eliminate this week
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Think about

when you most often do the Love Buster...
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Plan

to replace it with a positive alternative
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For example, if Breaking Promises is a top Love Buster, resolve to only make promises you can keep...

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Have a plan for what you will do when you are most likely to make a promise you can't keep.

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Love Need

The following week, focus on a
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For example, if your spouse’s Love Need is admiration, you might plan to praise him/her each evening over dinner.

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Don't Move On

Until you have embedded the new habit
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Expert Lover!

Before you know it, you'll be an
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www.SmartLoving.org

Francine Pirola

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