emotional intelligence is the ability to recognize, name, understand and regulate our feelings, rather than allowing out of control emotions to mindlessly influence choices, actions, and relationships
Recognizing, understanding, labeling, expressing, and (most importantly) regulating the emotions– you can make that feeling work for, rather than against you
Regulating requires the development of strategies like mindful breathing; celebrating your own and others’ positive emotions; being the first to apologize, forgive, or initiate joy; rejecting negative “self-talk”, and taking a moment each morning to consider what it would look like for you to be your “best self” that day
Focus on what is positive; don't focus on a negative (I want to find worthwile ways to spend my free time instead of I want to spend less time on social media and binge watching Netflix.
Give yourself time & commit to it (one month is a good place to start)
Don't give up on yourself that's not how you create change.
If you are feeling extra saucy, go ahead and turn your intention to a goal-- a SMART one, of course.