Open To Love

Published on Dec 06, 2015

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PRESENTATION OUTLINE

discover Three magic keys

that will open your heart to trusting again

You are in the right Place If

  • You have been crushed by love
  • You are wondering if you will ever be able to trust a man again
  • You know you don't want to be alone for the rest of your life
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In This Webinar

  • You are going to discover what "Open To Love: Learn To Trust Again" can do for you.
  • Your eyes will be opened to see why what you have been doing so far hasn't been working to help you get over the hurt and find the freedom of new love.
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Things like...

  • Trying to not allow what was said or what was done to affect you anymore
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Becoming an eeyore

Withdrawing in fear from love
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Leaping Like A Tigger

Desperately searching for love
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My Promise

Your heart will learn to trust again
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to trust

Yourself, Love and a man again

Do any of these sound like you...

  • The thought of committing to a man again creates an image of being controlled and losing "you"
  • You still find yourself with longings to be loved
  • You are lonely and wish you had someone to share life with
  • Every man you open up to a little seems to be a carbon copy of your ex
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Or how about these - can you identify?

  • Fear rises up in your chest when a man asks you out even if just for coffee
  • You know true love must be out there but you have no idea how to find it
  • You are really not sure where your last love went wrong
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afraid to fall in love

But afraid you'll end up alone

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Wonder if

you are not enough to keep a man

wonder If

You'll ever find a man who doesn't lie to you

wonder if

You'll ever find someone who cherishes you

The Good news is...

it isn't you

You are not unloveable

ABout Me

Divorced after 24 years

I knew real love was out there

And I didn't want to die without experiencing it
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I began a journey

and I would't be distracted
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I asked myself the tough questions

  • What made my love fall apart?
  • Who was I INSIDE - really?
  • How could love work without failing?
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I had to kiss some toads

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But I discovered the answers

to all of my searches
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6 Years after my separation

I married the love of my life - without fear

My passion

is to lead  you, the woman with the crushed heart
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back from the edge

of shutting your heart down and being alone

freedom

to crossing over into

and the confidence

to open your heart again
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To trust again

with a wide open heart
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without fear

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To trust love again

because you know what it looks like
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to trust a man again

because you know your own strength
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To discover Freedom from

  • The fear of not being enough
  • The fear of being controlled, manipulated, pushed into what you don't want
  • Painful love
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No more hiding

instead, living out loud!
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instead, living out loud!

And standing up for what you long for
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having a life

that fills you up and spills over

having a love

that is an over the moon, never leave me kind

In this session

  • I will show you how this happened for others
  • I will introduce you to how you can find it for yourself
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When you get this

  • You will never stop smiling
  • You will know the secrets that attract not only a good man but a great man - the man for YOU
  • You will know how to be happy even if you are completely alone

Belinda's story

from terror to the love of her life

she never gave up

  • Belinda was caught for many years in a marriage with an alcoholic
  • She was beaten down in every way possible
  • When she had the courage to leave, she determined that she was not going to let life defeat her.
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What Did she need to do?

  • She looked her situation in the face.
  • She asked herself the hard questions
  • She found the answers to those questions and started accepting the hurt inside, the uniqueness of who she was
  • She went after a new understanding of what love SHOULD be like
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She married Ken because he fit who she was and says that, now, after many years, she has never felt so cherished.

Kim's story

She moved back in with her parents

She wanted to be loved

  • Kim had two young children when her husband left her for someone else
  • Their relationship had been rocky all along filled with hurtful words and actions
  • She wasn't sure she would ever be able to fully trust anyone again

What did she need to do?

  • Kim asked the hard questions of herself. What did her heart want?
  • How had she been trying to get what she wanted in ways that were destructive without realizing it?
  • What did she REALLY want now?
  • What was it that gave her value?

On her wedding day to Cary she had no doubts that THIS was the love she had been waiting for and she was now able to embrace it with FREEDOM!

You will never again have to...

  • Wait anxiously to see if a man is going to accept you or not
  • Spend time with someone who mistreats you or tries to control you
  • Search dating sites, read articles, try every game in the book to learn how to attract and keep a good man
  • Feel that sense of dread before a date.
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Are you, without a doubt, a woman who knows what she DOES and DOES NOT WANT?

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Are you a woman who is strong and open on the inside yet is known to be soft and inviting on the outside?

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do you believe that the man you love

will be the luckiest man alive?
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The usual advice

to finding love again
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The Usual Advice

  • Get over your ex
  • Grieve your loss
  • Heal your heart
  • Find new interests
  • Get out there dating again
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All good and I followed it

But it left me with holes in my healing
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They didn't give me enough tools

to do what they were telling me I needed to do

How?

I was left with the Question

aND why

do i keep falling into the same patterns?
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That's why I developed my program to include the "How To's" that were missing for me - and for many I have seen fall in love with love again.

I keep things as simple as I can

so you don't get lost IN THE OVERWHELM

the "fear to trust" solution

sorting it out step by step

step 1

You must learn to trust your heart again
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First we work on your heart and what you believe about yourself.

Our greatest fear is that we are not enough and so we won't be loved.

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You will break your old patterns

  • We will reveal the impossible rules you are holding yourself to and don't even know it
  • We will show you how to start loving yourself in hyper-practical ways by learning to meet your own needs
  • We will write you a new story - bring out the diamond instead of the coal
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The goal is for you to declare in your strongest inside AND outside voice that...

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step 2

You must learn to trust love again
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Second, comes your picture of love - what has it been?
What should it be?

We will Rethink old patterns

  • The 3 Levels of Love
  • The 6 Heart Needs and how they change everything in love
  • The Never Leave Me Love Blueprint
  • How to design on paper a relationship that you could thrive in so you know what you are looking for
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You will design a "Lebensraum"

which is a room where two can grow

Step 3

You must learn to trust a man again
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All Men are not the same

  • You will be fascinated by what you learn about what makes a man tick
  • You will unlock the secrets that place you permanently into a man's heart causing him to fight for you always
  • You will learn how your new-found feminine strengths draw out the "cherishing" in a man
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Perfect For Me Man Plan

You will create your very own

if you Take the time and care

To follow this process
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You will become a woman that every man wants

no matter your shape, age or past

You will find a new joy

that spreads over your entire life
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The Sexiest Thing on a Woman?

By the way... Do you know what a man finds to be
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It's that smile

that comes from the bottom of your toes

To find you already in love with life

is incredibly attractive to him

Reta's Story

She had hidden to protect her life

She knew real love was out there

  • Reta's ex-husband struggled with a mental illness
  • She and her children hid in a secret room many times when he had been drinking
  • At last when he was taken away from her by police for the last time, she claimed her freedom
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She chose to win over heartbreak

  • Reta focused on the tough questions for her own heart
  • She discovered all that was lovable about herself
  • She challenged her old beliefs and replaced them with the truth
  • She refused to stop learning and growing
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That's what attracted Ken to her. Her soft heart, her love for life and her ability to see the best despite what she had been through.

Today they remain the best of friends, business partners and
each other's safe place.

Stop trying to find love again

by working from the surface down

Instead, start opening up your heart

so you can grow from the inside out
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Scared?

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So was I

  • So is every woman who has been hurt - ever
  • Kim
  • Belinda
  • Reta

But consider the alternative

Do you want to stay where you are FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE?
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Or do you want to move

beyond the hurt and loneliness?
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What defeats fear is action

One small step at a time
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Today I promised

that I would show you how to trust again
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by learning how to

  • Overcome the fear of being controlled again
  • Understand the secrets that will attract a great quality man
  • Be happy even if you are alone
  • Embrace a better life than ever before

THIS IS THE SOLUTION

and I have IT ready for you
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How I CAN help you

  • Learn to trust your heart again so you show up strong on the inside, soft and inviting on the outside
  • Learn to trust love again so you understand it and know what you are searching for
  • Learn to trust a man again so you can be completely yourself with him
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For free!

And I can do this
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I am setting time aside this next month to meet with those who are serious about moving ahead.

for those who are:

  • Committed to looking at their situation squarely in the face
  • Willing to ask the tough questions of themselves
  • Prepared to do what it takes to leave the past behind and embrace a new future
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On the call I will help you get complete clarity about where you are right now and what your personal strategy will be to get you where you want to go.

Together we will...

  • Determine where your worst blocks are to trust
  • Assess your "Trust Factor"
  • Set up a 3 PHASE strategy for you to take away with you and start working on right away
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To prepare both of us, I will ask you to fill out a questionnaire when you book your time for our call.
It will make our 50 minute chat so much more productive.

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If you decide you need a Guide AND you are a good fit, I may invite you to become one of my Preferred Clients.

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The most important thing TO ME

is that you have a map in your hands

As an FYI, though, Preferred Clients are held to a high standard of accountability and perseverance.
No excuses! No hiding!

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nO SLACKING ON YOUR OUTCOMES

I train my clients to live by RPM

  • R is for the RESULTS you want
  • P is for the PURPOSE you want it
  • M is for taking MASSIVE ACTION toward mastering it
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There is no other way

To get you to where you want to go
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the amazing thing is

you can get there - if you want to
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SO LET'S MAKE A PLAN

JUST YOU AND ME. TOGETHER. FREE.
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lET'S GET YOU STARTED

Spaces for the Free Strategy
sessions are limited.
I don't want you to have
to wait long.
Click below to
claim your time now!

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WHERE WILL YOU BE

IN 10 YEARS IF YOU DON'T DO THIS?
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If you encounter any problems booking your time,
please contact me at bernice@bernicemcdonald.com

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Thank you for being here!

I look forward to meeting many of you
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Check out the many resources at www.bernicemcdonald.com

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