It's time for us parents and teachers to go back to school - not to learn new things, but to unlearn - a whole lot of what we have been unfortunately conditioned with.
Its time to question our beliefs, its time for some de-weeding - to create a better, more organic, more meaningful and vitalizing ecosystem for our children.
Oh, No! Rewards and marks take away the real reason to learn something. Children learn better when they do / learn something for the intrinsic value of it.
Oh, No! What we can is help children understand the importance of each value in their life and then out of this understanding they decide when to use which one.
Oh, No! We can't build their self esteem - it has to be done by self. We could instead give them an environment where they can build a solid self belief.
Oh, No! This notion of children less-than-us (adults) is a huge put down. In reality - they are quite like us. All the time learning, fiercely independent and “I am able”.