The core symptoms of autism are challenges related to communication, social interaction, restrictive or repetitive behaviors and interests.

Autism is considered a Spectrum Disorder because there are many different variations and severities. Some people are mildly affected and some are severely impacted.

And some, like Kiki here, are firmly in the middle.

This is our family. Cam, Kieran's brother, also has autism. Blythe is Neurotypical, which is a fancy way of saying that she does not have autism.

Doesn't she look like she wants to smack him??

Kieran was a very late talker. He didn't say his first word until he was two and a half years old. BUT, he taught himself the alphabet just three weeks after that! He is very smart, but in a very different way than most kids.

That's the CN Tower there in the background.

Sensory issues. Kieran has got them.

Kiki doesn't always know how to ask to be included. If the opportunity comes up where he can play with you, go ahead and ask him. Be specific about what you want him to do. Kiki loves other kids and he isn't shy, but he sometimes has a hard time asking for what he wants in play situations.

Kiki can sometimes take a while to think about what you are saying. It doesn't mean he's not interested.

Use gestures and facial expressions when you talk to him. Speak literally, and try not to use confusing figures of speech--if you ask him "what's up?" He may say, literally "The sky." He's not trying to be funny. He's just a very concrete thinker.

If Kiki is doing something inappropriate or annoying, it's okay to tell him nicely. Just be sure to tell him the right thing to do, because he may not know.

Kiki is a kid, just like you. He just needs extra help. Accept that he is different and respect his strengths, just as you would any other friend.

You are some of the best teachers that Kieran will ever have. I know that he can be funny, difficult, loving, annoying, loud, impatient and stubborn. I am always so grateful when I see you guys treating him with respect, care, patience and love.