PRESENTATION OUTLINE
Communication Breakdown
- Conflicts & Argumentation
- Being Misunderstood
- Misunderstanding Others
- Inaccurate Impressions
- Relationship Breakdowns
CONCEPTS TO LEARN FROM READING
- Speaking Egocentrically or Allocentrically
- Disambiguation
- Amplification Bias
- The antidote for miscommunication
- Pseudo-communication
Exercise 1
The Blindfolding Game
Exercise 2
Draw What Now?
Exercise 3
Creative Thinking Listening Questions
Carl wins every race, he is the best of all of the competitors, yet he never gets a trophy to hold. Why?
Often times when we are challenged to think critically and creatively, we listen more attentively and acutely
Your choice:
I can read the question out loud, or a student may do it. But you must decide now.
No switching midway thru..
What I see or the student sees..
Carl wins every race, he is the best of all of the competitors, yet he never gets a trophy to hold. Why? (He is a horse, dog, etc)
HOW COMM WORKS
- Both sides-considerate, taking both pov into account
- Both sides-calibrated, making assumptions about strategy
- Both sides-collaborated, share burden of cognitive burden of comm equally
- BUT--WHEN TIME IS INCLUDED, MISCOMMUNICATION INCREASES
Exercise 4: Communication Breakdown
Disambiguate the following statement:
"I feel bad for people who only listen to and appreciate one genre of music."
Allocentric- a selfless care and concern for others.
Consideration
I genuinely wish others could be exposed to and appreciate diverse genres of music, because it's awesome.
Egocentric- self centered and selfish.
Critical
How can you not have better, more diverse taste in music like me? I pity you.
SONG 1: UPTOWN FUNK
Mark Ronson