It acts aggressively toward anyone who refuses to follow it, attempting to win them over, neutralize their position or get rid of them.
They are an Egregore (also egregor) is an occult concept representing a "thoughtform" or "collective group mind", an autonomous psychic entity made up of, and influencing, the thoughts of a group of people.
To eliminate something form your life, ignore it do not avoid it; pass it with indifference. Ignoring a pendulum will allow it to pass by you and dissipate into space causing no harm. A pendulum can’t hook into emptiness.
Your subconscious is directly connected to the information field where the solutions to your problem already exists and if you get empty and still it is available immediately. Also, once you defeat or neutralize a pendulum, it’s energy becomes available to you.