PRESENTATION OUTLINE
How does a proactive person speak and behave?
Proactive languages and acts
Proactive language
- I want to
- It's possible
- I can do this
- I have a choice
Reactive language
- I can't
- It's impossible
- I have to
- I don't have a choice
- I'll try
Proactive behavior
- Helping someone when they need help.
- Giving compliments to others.
Reactive behavior
- Pushing someone.
- Saying rude comments about others.
What is victimitis virus?
How to prevent the victimitis virus
Why should we focus on the circle of control?
Proactive effects
- We will only worry about ourselves own attitude.
- We won't say rude comments to others.
- We will only worry about our own choices.
How do the four human tools help us make good decisions?
The Four Human Tools
- Self-Awareness means that you can observe your own thoughts and actions.
- Conscience means that you can listen to your inner voice to know the difference between right to wrong.
- Imagination means that you can visualize new possibilities.
- Willpower means that you have the power to choose.
Good decisions
- They will help us to stay calm.
- They will help us to control ourselves when we are mad or just bothered by something.
- They will help us to be proactive.
How can being proactive affect my life?
Personal life
- If you help people a lot then people will think you are nice.
- If you take responsibility for yourself and if you are honest then people will want to be you friend.
Academic life
- It can help because if you are not good at math then you will be proactive about it and study to understand what you are learning in math so you will be able to do the lesson/whatever you are learning.
- If you don't get something you can be patient and then you might get what you didn't understand and not get frustrated.